When I say times are tough, it’s not exactly news. My family, like a lot of others in North America, is not only frightened of investment losses and impending layoffs, we’re already feeling it. Since money is sparse, my parents and I have decided to “cancel” Christmas. No gifts!
My mother is a supervisor in a large corporation’s travel department. She oversees corporate travel and their clients include an ailing North American car manufacturer, a bailed out American bank and an investment bank that filed for bankruptcy earlier this year. Business in 2009 isn’t looking very good and there’s a real chance she’ll get laid off in the new year.
Knowing this, my parents are trying to save money just in case. Mom’s near retirement, but not quite ready for it. She doesn’t like the idea of not doing anything, especially if early retirement means less desirable health coverage. In efforts to save money, we agreed we wouldn’t get Christmas presents for each other. While others may find this a terribly sad, I’m actually looking forward to Christmas this year—more than other years. Two less gifts to buy means less time in a crowded shopping mall. That means more time with loved ones.
Your two cents: I know we’re not the only family approaching the holidays differently. Are you and your family changing your holiday spending habits this year?












Tackling debt: slow and steady wins the race?
September 15, 2008 in debt, travel, your two cents | Tags: blogs, comments, debt, gail vaz-oxlade, money, nancy zimmerman, spending, travel | 7 comments
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OK, I ended up going on that vacation which is why I haven’t written a new blog entry for a few weeks. Sorry for the lack of entries and thank you for your input on my last post. I want to continue on this topic of whether you or me deserve a vacation while in debt. As we can see with all your comments, everyone’s got an opinion and they’re pretty diverse.
I asked Gail whether she thought a girl like me deserved to go on a trip and this was her response:
Now I don’t disagree with Gail. I know the difference between a need and a want, but I don’t agree with the idea that a person in debt should not spend any money on any unessential things until they’re in the black. That approach may work for some people and I tip my hat off to them. Unfortunately, I don’t think it’s realistic for me to exclude occasional trips to the movie theatre or a round of drinks with friends. That just isn’t living to me and I know I would be very unhappy and overwhelmed. I think many people feel the same way.
Reader and fellow-blogger Nancy Zimmerman has an approach I agree with much more. She put it well when she left this comment:
I couldn’t have said it better myself. Let me know, would you recommend Gail or Nancy’s approach to becoming debt free? Perhaps you have another way of attacking debt?
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